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How To Find Her Ring Size (without ruining the surprise)

How To Find Her Ring Size (without ruining the surprise)

It's an age-old question: How do I find my girlfriend's ring size without ruining a surprise engagement? There are many tricks and tips out there, but many simply won't cut it when you need to be as exact as possible.

⚠️ Don't Try These: Avoid sticking rings in soap, trying on her rings to see where they 'fit you,' or tying a string around her finger. These methods are unreliable and could ruin your surprise!

As professional jewelers with over 40 years of experience, we recommend three proven methods that will give you the best results and ensure a perfect fit for your engagement ring.

Method 1: The Paper Trick (Most Accurate)

This professional jeweler's method works if there is a ring that your girlfriend already wears on her ring finger (left hand). We can usually get within a half size if you measure a ring she wears on her right hand ring finger.

Ring sizing paper trick diagram

Step-by-Step Instructions:

  1. Print the sizing guide: Download and print this PDF on heavy cardstock
  2. Cut out the cone: Carefully cut out the cone shape from the printed page
  3. Insert and measure: Place the cone into the ring and measure where it hits at the widest part
  4. Mark the spot: Make a clear mark right where the ring hits the paper
  5. Send to us: Mail or email a photo of the marked paper and we'll determine her exact size
Step 1 ring sizing Step 2 ring sizing Step 3 ring sizing Step 4 ring sizing

Method 2: Borrow One of Her Rings

Another excellent option is to temporarily borrow a ring she already owns. This gives us the most accurate measurement possible.

Important Tips:

  • Choose wisely: Avoid rings she wears every day - she'll notice if it's missing!
  • Note the finger: Remember which finger she wears it on (left vs. right hand matters)
  • Quick sizing: Bring the ring to our studio and we can size it in minutes
  • Return promptly: Borrow it when she's away and return it before she notices

Method 3: Enlist Friends and Family

As a last resort, close friends or family members may have valuable information from past jewelry purchases. They can help you narrow down the size range.

Questions to Ask:

  • Has she mentioned her ring size before?
  • Have they bought her rings in the past? What sizes?
  • Which fingers were those rings for?
  • Does she have small, medium, or large hands?

Pro Tip: Even if they have sizes for other fingers, write them all down! The more information we have, the better we can estimate her ring finger size.

Varying ring sizes on different fingers

Example of varying ring sizes on different fingers - everyone's hands are unique!

Critical Things to Remember

🔧 Not All Rings Resize Easily

Many custom Celtic rings can only be sized up or down by one or two sizes. Being accurate from the start is crucial!

👆 Fingers Vary in Size

There's usually about a half-size difference between dominant and non-dominant hands. Each finger is a different size!

💎 Consider Ring Style

Wide bands fit more snugly than thin bands. Engagement rings with intricate designs may have sizing limitations.

What If I Can't Determine Her Size?

If you want a custom ring or one that can't be easily sized, don't worry! We have solutions:

Our Solutions:

  • Order a sizing ring: We can send you a simple band in an estimated size to try discreetly
  • Propose with a placeholder: Use a temporary ring and design the perfect one together afterward
  • Free resizing service: Many of our rings include complimentary resizing within the first 60 days (see our return policy)
  • Expert consultation: Call us at 1-800-488-6347 - our craftsmen will guide you through the best options

Need More Sizing Information?

Check out our comprehensive ring sizing resources for international conversions and detailed measurements.

View Ring Sizing Chart → International Conversions →

Ready to Find the Perfect Engagement Ring?

Browse our collection of handcrafted Celtic engagement rings, each designed to honor your heritage and celebrate your love story.

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📥 Free Ring Sizing Guide

Download our professional ring sizing guide and send us your measurements. We'll help ensure a perfect fit!

Download PDF Guide →

Need Help? We're Here for You

Our expert craftsmen are ready to help you find the perfect ring size and create the engagement ring of her dreams.

📞 Call Us
1-800-488-6347

Walker Metalsmiths
1 South Main St, Andover, NY 14806
www.walkerscelticjewelry.com

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Ring Size Conversion Chart - Equivalents

Ring Size Conversion Chart - Equivalents

Shopping for a Celtic Ring but unsure of your size? Use the chart below to convert between US/Canadian number sizes and the "Wheat Sheaf" letter system used in Ireland, UK, and Australia. Diameters and circumferences are given in both inches and millimetres. If you don't know your size at all, check out our guide on finding her ring size without ruining the surprise—the paper trick works for finding your own size too!

Average Women's Sizes

US Size 6–8 (UK L–Q)
Most jewelers sample in size 7
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Average Men's Sizes

US Size 9–11 (UK R–W)
Most jewelers sample in size 10
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Note: Ring sizing gauges and published charts do not always agree. The information below is the result of careful study and comparison of various sources, consistent with the instruments and measuring technique we use in our workshop.

Ring Size Conversion Chart

Diameter
(inches)
Diameter
(mm)
Circumference
(inches)
Circumference
(mm)
US/Canada UK/Ireland
Australia
Japan Swiss
0.458 11.6 1.438 36.5 0
0.474 12.0 1.488 37.8 ½ A
0.490 12.4 1.539 39.1 1 B 1
0.506 12.9 1.589 40.4 C
0.522 13.3 1.639 41.6 2 D 2 1.50
0.538 13.7 1.689 42.9 E 3 2.75
0.554 14.1 1.740 44.2 3 F 4 4.00
0.570 14.5 1.790 45.5 G
0.586 14.9 1.840 46.7 4 H 7
0.602 15.3 1.890 48.0 I 8
0.618 15.7 1.941 49.3 5 9
0.634 16.1 1.991 50.6 10
0.650 16.5 2.041 51.8 6 11 12.75
0.666 16.9 2.091 53.1 13 14.00
0.682 17.3 2.141 54.4 7 ★ 14 15.25
0.698 17.7 2.192 55.7 15 16.50
0.714 18.1 2.242 56.9 8 16 17.75
0.730 18.5 2.292 58.2 17
0.746 18.9 2.342 59.5 9 18
0.762 19.4 2.393 60.8 19
0.778 19.8 2.443 62.1 10 ★ 20
0.794 20.2 2.493 63.3 10½ 22 22.75
0.810 20.6 2.543 64.6 11 23
0.826 21.0 2.594 65.9 11½ 24
0.842 21.4 2.644 67.2 12 25 27.50
0.858 21.8 2.694 68.4 12½ Z 26 28.75
0.874 22.2 2.744 69.7 13 27
0.906 23.0 2.845 72.3 14 Z3
0.938 23.8 2.945 74.8 15
0.970 24.6 3.046 77.4 16

★ = Most common sample size (Size 7 for women, Size 10 for men)

Reality Check: Sizing Tips

Rings and gauges are hard metal objects that can be measured exactly, but your finger is flesh and bone. Your finger is not perfectly round and cannot be measured with the same degree of accuracy as the ring. At the end of the day, the right ring is one that will stay on comfortably.

📏 Factors That Affect Size

  • Temperature & humidity
  • Exercise & diet
  • Time of day
  • Time of month / pregnancy
  • Dominant hand is usually ½ size larger

✓ Best Fit Guidelines

  • Should fit snugly with slight resistance when removing
  • Wider rings should be slightly looser than narrow rings
  • Quarter sizes help achieve the best fit
  • Men: if new to rings, proper size will feel tight at first—don't go too loose!

How We Measure: True Diameter Method

At Walker Metalsmiths, we use the True Diameter Method. The mark is read at the point where the wider side of the taper meets the edge of the ring. Wide rings are occasionally tapered and the smaller edge should be taken as the true size since this is the diameter of the largest finger that can fit into it.

Some jewelers use the Center Line Method, where the mark at the center of the ring is judged to be the size. Using this method, a wider ring will be measured at a size slightly smaller than its true diameter due to the taper of the sizing gauge. Because a ring size is a definition of diameter, we believe it is proper that a ring actually measures the true diameter rather than contain a fudge factor for width. Your local jeweler may disagree—calibration of gauges from different manufacturers may also vary.

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